Let's be honest...
... because not being honest has an impact.
At best, it stalls you. It keeps you stuck. Lying can certainly make things worse.
The consequences of not being honest, of pretending like you don't know what you know (like, *really* know), is a life that can quickly become meaningless, vapid and existentially dead.
For starters, be honest about your part in your problems. Hint: your part is usually the thing you LEAST want to be true.
I have faith in you. And you should too. :)